Trough
out time, people have created this specifies ideas about how genders should
behave. They are called “gender roles”. We learn about gender roles early in
life. Girls are giving dolls and we teach them that they should be “girly”
meaning they should be emotional, have feelings and boys are given action figures
and taught to be strong, unemotional and be like a “man”. Sexism is embedded so
deeply in our history even in the Bible holds many sexism views. Even in our
daily basic people tend to do sexism stuff. People have implied “rules” about
what a gender should do and most people believe this is how we should be. Why
can’t there be gender equity?
How can there be gender equity if we
preform sexism every day? Both females and males executes sexism even on the
simplest forms. Sexism is a form of prejudice too. Sexism is present in our
jobs, schools, sports, streets, and even in our households. For example, the
gender roles have implied that a women should stay in the house and do all the
house work, clean, cook, and take care of the kids. While a man should work and
work. Why can’t a man stay home and do all the house work, clean, cook, and
take care of the kids while a women go and work? If this happens, and the cases
are very rare a man is called a “modern man”. Why a man that do the housework
it’s called a “modern man” and a women it’s called “housewife”? Because we have
this mindset of stereotypes on what genders should do, and because they always
have been there since the day we have consciousness and is very hard for us not
to do it.
Liu told The Huffington Post
"Women today are trying very hard to fight against [these] stereotypes,
which is a very important process on the way to reach the equality between the
genders. And there's still many things to be done, but on [the] other hand,
during this process, we become scared to face to the fact that men and women
are just different in many aspects." I agree and disagree in a way with
what Liu said. She said “Women today are trying very hard to fight against
these stereotypes” women are not the only one fighting against them, many man
today too. She also clarified that in the process in looking for this “equality
between genders” we face the fact that men and women are just different in many
aspects. The thing is we shouldn’t be looking for equality, we should be
looking for gender equity for the simple fact that men and women would never be
the same but we should be treated equally. So why can’t there be gender equity?
Because of the thing we were teach and told as a child. I believe that if we
all teach our children that we can do anything and be anything, and banish all
those stereotypes, little by little we will accomplished this gender equity and
it will bring joy to many. The day that we can be who we are and not what
society wants us to be, that day we will be mark in human history.
Soy un chico fiel a sus principios y a sus amistades,soy violinista y quisiera ser nomada,soy un onironauta, muy pero muy arriesgado y no me da miedo serlo. Soy un idealista frustrado que no sabe vivir en el mundo real.
Soy un chico fiel a sus principios y a sus amistades,soy violinista y quisiera ser nomada,soy un onironauta, muy pero muy arriesgado y no me da miedo serlo, al contrario lo disfruto, eso me ha hecho disfrutar mi vida al máximo, siempre como si fuera el último día,soy un idealista frustrado que no sabe vivir en el mundo real. Solo soy un chico con inspiraciones en la vida.
Y este es mi pequeño blog donde pongo mis pensamientos, desahogos,trabajos,ensayos y entre otras cosas.